3 Types of Marriages You Should Know For Planning Your Wedding!

If you’re planning a wedding, understanding the types of marriages is crucial—especially since the terms can get confusing. Around the world, marriage types vary based on culture, religion, and law. In the U.S.—and particularly in Florida—things are more straightforward. However, there are still different kinds of marriages you should know about before you say “I do.”

This article will break down three major types of marriages in the United States, clarify the difference between marriage types and wedding styles, and explore the types of marriages in Florida to help you plan confidently and legally.

What Does Marriage Mean in the U.S.?

Before we dive into the specific forms of marriage, it’s helpful to understand how marriage is defined in the United States. While different cultures and religions define marriage in their own ways, in the U.S., marriage is legally recognized as the union of two individuals—a contract that comes with rights and responsibilities.

Basic Legal Requirements for Marriage in the U.S.

To be recognized as a legal marriage, the following requirements must generally be met:

• Both individuals must enter the union willingly (forced marriages are not valid)
• Both must be of legal age (18 in Florida, or 16 with parental consent)
• A valid marriage license and marriage certificate are required
• The individuals must not be closely related by blood
• Both must be mentally capable of understanding the union

Laws can vary from state to state, so be sure to check local guidelines or consult your wedding officiant for the most accurate information.

3 Common Types of Marriages in the U.S.

Let’s clear something up: types of marriages are different from types of weddings. Wedding types (like beach weddings, destination weddings, or rustic ceremonies) refer to the style of celebration. In contrast, types of marriages focus on the legal or religious structure of the union.

Here are the three main types of marriages you’ll encounter in the U.S.:

1. Civil Marriage

(A Legal Union Without Religious Ceremony)

Civil marriage is a non-religious form of marriage that’s legally recognized by the state. It is typically performed by a judge, court official, or notary public. However, it’s important to understand that all legal marriages are technically civil, even if performed in a church.

My friend Mario Ibanez, wedding officiant and owner of Tie The Knot Miami, puts it this way:

“Technically, all marriages are civil since they are not valid unless a marriage license is obtained from the Clerk of the Court. The only requisite is that the license must be officialized by an officer of the court, a state-appointed Notary Public, or a member of the clergy.”

In short, whether you marry in a church or city hall, your marriage type is civil as long as it’s legally filed with the state.

2. Common Law Marriage

(Marriage Without a Ceremony or License)

Common law marriage is one of the lesser-known types of marriage, but it still exists in some states. In a common law marriage, a couple lives together, presents themselves as married to the public, and shares responsibilities—without a marriage license or wedding ceremony.

To qualify as a common law marriage, couples often:

• Live together for a significant time
• Use the same last name
• Share finances or property
• File taxes jointly

However, common law marriages are not recognized in every state, and each state that recognizes them has its own set of rules. For instance, Florida abolished common law marriage in 1968, but any such unions established before January 1, 1968, are still considered valid.

💡 Important Note: Common law marriages usually come under scrutiny during breakups or inheritance disputes, so be cautious if you’re considering this type of marriage.

3. Religious Marriage

(Sacred Union With Legal Authority)

A religious marriage is performed according to the customs and rituals of a specific faith, such as Christian, Jewish, Hindu, or Muslim ceremonies. While these are deeply spiritual and symbolic, they still require legal documentation to be recognized by the state.

Some mistakenly believe that a religious marriage isn’t legal unless it’s followed by a civil ceremony. But if a marriage license is obtained and filed, a religious ceremony counts as both religious and civil.

In short, a religious marriage is both spiritual and legal—as long as it follows state requirements.

Types of Marriages in Florida

Florida recognizes several marriage types, but here are the key details you need to know for planning your Florida wedding:

Legal Marriage Requirements in Florida

• Legal age is 18 (or 16 with parental consent)
• A valid marriage license must be obtained from the Clerk of the Circuit Court
• The license must be used within 60 days of issuance
• There is a 3-day waiting period for Florida residents (waived with premarital counseling)
• The marriage must be solemnized by an authorized officiant (judge, notary, or clergy)

Florida and Common Law Marriages

As mentioned earlier, Florida does not recognize new common law marriages. Only those established before 1968 are valid under state law. So, if you’re living together but not legally married in Florida, your relationship won’t carry the same legal protections as a traditional marriage.

Civil & Religious Marriages in Florida

Both civil and religious marriages are fully recognized in Florida, as long as a marriage license is obtained and properly filed. Whether you’re planning a grand church wedding or a simple courthouse ceremony, your marriage type will be legally binding.

Final Thoughts on the Different Kinds of Marriages

Understanding the different kinds of marriages can help you make informed decisions about your relationship, your wedding planning, and your legal rights. Whether you’re leaning toward a civil marriage, want a deeply spiritual religious marriage, or are curious about common law marriage, what matters most is ensuring your union is legal and meaningful.

If you’re getting married in Florida, be sure to review the local laws and speak with your wedding officiant about the best form of marriage for your needs.

Still have questions about types of marriages?

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